There is a saying that says, "no matter where you go, there you are." If every relationship you enter into ends badly, you might look at the one common factor in all of them.

Friends are a terrible thing to lose. A true friend gives of themselves, without expectation, just because. Therein lies a secret that eludes all but the most astute. The receiving end of such devotion, if you are the recipient, will impact the core of your being.

Weekends rock

Happy Valentine's Day Fubaria!

Rule #1 Don't sweat the small stuff. Rule #2 It's all small stuff. Rule #9 Always carry a knife.

Sometimes life just happens when you are making other plans, you try your best to be sure to cross all the T's and Dot all the I's and when you least expect it somebody rewrites the dictionary. Tomorrow is another day.

The time it takes to lose it rivals the time it took to get it, your level of want it determines your right to keep it.

Adventure awaits, life is filled with choices, your life is the result of your choices. Choice adjustments can be made, they are like course adjustments, when one is needed, sooner is better than later. However, once the course is chosen, stay the course, adventure... Dead ahead.

My thoughts today are simple, it is time to say goodbye to 2018 and embrace 2019. You can't drive forward looking in the rearview mirror so, get over it, get past it, quit it and forget it. Time to move forward. I'm just sayin"

So, I am supposed to write the new great american novel about myself here in this little space and give you deep insight into who I am and what I am all about. Ok, don’t hold your breath on that one, but I will give you some insight into what I have been thinking recently. As we move through this life, allowing experience to shape us into who we are, we begin to settle into roles that feel most natural for us. Some are born leaders, some are followers, some just need to get out of the way. Our roles are revealed rather than developed. I was speaking with a young lady a couple of days ago who says those who are dominant and know her say that she is naturally submissive. Those who know me say that I am naturally Dominant, that is an accurate assessment to a degree, but I am more Master than just dominant, and more nuturing than I am controlling. I don’t exert control of someone as much as I provide control to someone who first submits to me. As I said, roles are revealed more than developed

My status is: I have no status.

It is interesting how many people on Fu take themselves way too seriously...this is a game right everyone? Sort of like faceplace on steroids. We can post NSFW photos as long as we confine them to folders labeled as such. Some make these available to their friends, some even post very, very, questionable memes depicting everything from bondage to wild and hot sex and make them available to everyone. Now to my way of thinking, if you are going to tout your sexual preferences and applaud your personal diversity (or depravity) depending on your point of view...there are some prudes lurking in the shadows who consider fun to be nasty...you have opened the big peoples door to conversation of an adult (sensual) nature and depending on the tone of your memes, one might even take them to mean that you are welcoming levels of chat akin to your posts. What I am saying boys and girls, is if you are going to go skinny dipping in public, don't be surprised if you give people the impression that you are a free