This is something I posted elsewhere but I felt the idea still needs to be presented and people give feed back on it just the same.
What is attraction, I mean what is it really? What attracts you to another person fully and makes you want them oh soo badly? I mean yeah you can look at someone and be attracted to them, but what about after you get to know that person? Are you still attracted to them? Are you only worried about how they look and not how they act? Could you just be using or liking that person just because of how they look?
Do you go as far as to foolishly have sexual relations with someone just because they look good, knowing later you won't have anything to do with them. How could you live with yourself? But I guess its okay for some, because they were only thinking about themselves at that moment?
Yeah, I don't care, in any aspect you have to be physically attracted to someone in some aspect, but after that what do you have? I mean if you can't get along with that person, what do you have just a physcial relationship? And that won't last too long because that some thing you were looking for in the person you were with at the time you will go looking for elsewhere and then you start the cycle all over again.
I mean yeah, the 1st few months with a person are fine if you get that far with a person, but what about those people who've been together years and they still live life together like they've just met a month ago and are just dating, those people have that "thing" about them. There are aspects about the other person you like sooo much about the other person besides how they look that you can't get enough of. Yeah they're "friends with benefits" but the benefits are being in the company of each other and being happy with every moment they are together experiencing all aspects of life together, yeah they may have those days where everything doesn't seem to go one person's way but they compromise for the good of the both of them. I mean whats sex? You can get sex anywhere, but sex with someone you like and love is soo much better, because you actually care for that other person, instead of just trying to fill your need and going to the next person.
Alot more aspects go into being attracted to someone then just how they look. I've met some (in my opinion) very attractive females and their personality makes them the one of the ugliest persons in the world, and it just makes you wonder, and I'm pretty sure all of you have said the same thing at some point about someone...he/she is a very attractive person I don't understand why they're single.
