ok so i decided that instead of crying myself a river, that ship has sailed, i'm looking for somebody new to float my boat! lol ok in all seriousness just because i'm and "older" woman which i don't feel old, and just because i'm heavy does NOT mean i'm hard up or an easy target. if you wanna get with this then you need to know the scoop, check out my long drawn out profile page and find out who the real me is! please, don't get me wrong i feel very flattered that there are men out there that wanna please me, but all in all you just wanna please yourself and i ain't got time for selfish people or babies lookin for a wet nurse. so if you are looking for substance and a whole hell of a lot of loyalty then hit me up, you'll be glad ya did, because i only want someone that deserves me, and the man that can do that will thank his lucky stars everyday! i'll make sure of it!