I've read this story in Marcus Meleton's book called"Nice Guys don't get laid" & I quote...Being a nice guy doesn't mean the guy is weak...he's just weak around women.A very strange situation happens with a woman who's been in a bad relationship with a jerk.At times they figure that all men must pay.Being as an easy target.it's the nice guy that does the paying.His dates gets cancelled.his intentions & conservations are misinterpeted because of her bad past experiences.His only purposes seems to be paying for all the dates,flowers,& gifts that should've been bought by the jerk in the past.Such conditions like this considered as a payment of a debt,rarely a compliment.