Every guy has his ego sky high at the time his girl is moaning loud during any sexual encounter. Have you ever asked yourself if she is faking it? Well let me tell you that most of the women will admit that at one or another time they faked an orgasm.
The common question for men is: how am I able to know if she is faking it or not? Try to follow the following signals and tips so you know what to do about it. She might be trying not to hurt your ego when you are not able to perform.
Try to know how much alcohol she got because believe it or not this is an amazing downer. Another possibility is her perceived expectations of you and sex. She may feel that she’s disappointing you if she doesn’t come.
Your girl might be simply distracted having a long conversation into her own mind or she is tired.
These are the signs that you need to look for in order to know if she is a faker:
1.A woman can not fake lubrication. If you find dryness when you touch her; she is not turned on.
2.A sudden orgasm might be just the easiest way to go to watch TV. Do not get confuse here, a few girls have the capacity to have multiple orgasm but you need to know how to read the signs.
3.She is distracted. Where does she place her hands? How do her lips move? Here you are able to determine if she is into the same thing you are or not. Usually, right before a woman achieves an orgasm you’ll see intense concentration and focus so she may enjoy those overwhelming feelings. If she’s looking at you in a kind of abstracted way, she is probably not being so truthful in her moans and cries for more.
4.Her body temperature is not changing.
Now, how do you deal with a real faker? You need to be willing to become a very good student and learn about how her body works and encourage her to be vocal.
What you don’t want to do is get angry, blame her, antagonize her, make her feel guilty or lacking in some way. Let her know that time has no meaning when making love. If she feels like she wants to have an orgasm, she can; if she enjoys the sensations without the orgasm, that’s great too. There should be no pressure to achieve orgasm placed on her to fulfil her or your sexual expectations. If you can do this for her, she will assuredly appreciate your intentions and leave the acting behind.
