I have been single for the last four years ... I have haven't doing it in five. I find it hard to find a woman these days who isn't married or already has a man. and when I do find someone they are so hung up on the last guy they can get past him and they always bring him up or they just look past me. I have most the qualities a woman is looking for but they all seem to look past them. I am thoughtful, considerit, a great listener and a problem solver. I Just don't know what it i. Is it that I am too picky and not willing to settle for bar ass, or that it is that I am too pasive. I don't know but Itis fustraiting as hell. FUCK i am so pent up. man. I feel like I am going to explode. It sucks balls.