I have been in a with my boyfriend for almost 3 years in september. I moved in with him almost 2 years ago. He was gonna kick me out a few months ago cuz I wasnt making that much money to pay for half the rent and bills. He wanted me to prove that I can take care of myself. I took care of myself b4 I met him so I didnt need to prove to him I can take care of myself.
In order for me to stay I had to pay the rent and electric and phone bills myself for 2 months to show that I can do it. I did that and he didnt have me move out and I contiued to pay him my half of bills. Then I went into the hospital and had been out of work for 2 weeks and when i did go back to work I could only work 4 hours a day and had to work a month almost b4 I got a check and it wasnt that much and I asked him what he wanted me to do I could give him my check or I could get groceries he said groceries.
Well today he said he was irritated cuz money was tight and he was irritated with me some cuz I havnt payed him anything. He said I havnt 3 times which I know that is crap since to my knowledge I have paid him.
Now he is trying to tell me what to do with my money. I dont say anything about what he does with his money. We are not married yet so he can do what he wants with his money as long as bills are paid and the same goes for me. In away if feel like a roomate with benifits.
What are your opinions?