OK. I've had a few days to think about this and look at the site. I don't know any of you well enough to really ask for advice but if anyone has any I could really use it!!! Going through a bitter custody dispute and could use some help. Like I said before i am a single mom and I might be pretty boring at the moment but has anyone else out there been through this bullshit? Got a useless ex that wanted nothing to do with me while I was pregnant (drinking was more important to him) Any advice on how to get through this? AND how do you get back in the saddle so to speak with 3 young ones at home?