thanks to all who voted and left comments on my mumms. I wanted to state that it's not that I care what people think of me, I was just curious to dee how many people agreed or disagreed with me. I feel tats and piercings are great and have nothing to do with being a parent.
As for leaving the state, or even in state, i think it should be ok for anyone to meet people. If you are a single parent, you shouldn't have to wait until your kids are 18 to be able to find someone, or make new friends. I feel I am a good mom, i make my mistakes of course, but my kids come first. I was just curious on opinions. so thank you very much for taking the time. And for those of you that really don't think anything, why do you bother?