Katara Kat's blog: "Anything and Everything"

Well Holidays are here again blahhhhhhhh Yes I'm not big on holidays....but you wouldn't be either if for over ten years every holiday season you was abused in one way or another..... This year is different now since I am with someone new but as I told him it will take time for me to get over the past holiday experiences before I can really enjoy holidays like he does. -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Since me and my ex husband split up I have lost alot in ways of friends seems when I left him my so called friends left me. People I loved and cared about I guess really never cared about me cause when I told ex see ya they all disappeared and I haven't heard from them since. I hear more from ex husband than I do so called friends. I know since I left my ex husband I can truely be myself in my sub ways and not get told it is wrong to be a sub. Yes my ex husband was against the anyone male or female being submissive, which was really odd since he like to control everything I said or did and who I could and could not be friends with. With Kevin tho I can be submissive and he enjoys it and me. He even going as far as getting me a collar for Christmas. Kevin is new to having a sub but as with any sub and Master they learn with each other. This is the first time in many years that I have actually been able to be my true self with someone and not get ridiculed for being who I am but loved for it. Last time I was able to be my true self was with my highschool sweetheart who taught me alot and Kevin gets the benefits from what I was taught back then. For those not into the D/s all people are either dominate or submissive. They either like to take control or be controlled. Yes I like to be controlled but the person that does the controlling does it with love not harm. Submissives like to please their partner/Master anyway they can. The collar is like a wedding band but to us the collar is more bonding than a ring. Both say I love you but the collar is letting them know you trust them and love them enough to hand over control to them. When I get my collar I am going to take pictures and post them for all to see. If have any questions about the D/s lifestyle you can find alot of good info here @ http://www.cuffs.com/submission/lifestyle.html They have rules on both being Dominate and submissive and you can even look up the laws on it by searching the internet. Most never realize it but just about every couple there is always a Dominate and/or submissive person in the relationship sometimes both are Doms or subs but now and then you can get lucky and have one of each. If both partners in the relationship let themselves be free if they are into the D/s or what to start into the D/s lifestyle the sexual part of relationship can be very rewarding and so can the rest of the relationship. -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Ok I know this blog is bouncing from one end of the spectrum to the other but hey its after 4am I can't sleep... my Master/fiance is still at work and I'm just getting over from being ill. I'm suppose to be at work also but I had it scheduled off for son's concert and I just got released by the doctor to go back to work. So I have to go back to work Tuesday night which also is the same day as the Casino Staff Xmas party. I have most of next week off except Sunday the 24th due to I had to take the holiday off to take care of step-daughter while she is over for the holidays. Which I don't mind because I was asked to take it off so we wouldn't have to give up his holiday visitation. -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------- Well if anyone would like to talk or learn more about the lifestyle they can go on the virtual chat program Halsoft and can look me up as Katara.Sens or just go to the adult side and look up anyone and ask questions. About half of the adult side of Halsoft is in the D/s lifestyle especially those of us at Dark Dragon Radio.