How I Chat With Women Online
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online, and using the internet dating, chat, and
email to save time and get more dates, then you
need to take a minute and read THIS:
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I'm going to do something in this newsletter
that I almost NEVER do...
I'm going to share with you part of a real-life
conversation that I had with a woman online in
the past. Again, this is something that I VERY
rarely do... (so feel special and loved).
It's a small part of a bigger conversation, so
keep that in mind as you read it.
This little chunk of conversation is a great
example of how to tease, be Cocky & Funny, and
generally give a woman a hard time... and it shows
how this particular girl was responding.
Read it, and then I'll comment on it...
HER: you remind me of the boy on the playground
who pulls the girls pigtails
ME: The one you always liked?
HER: i dont like too many boys
ME: Yea, but you liked that one
HER: and especially mean ones
ME: And you LOVE me
HER: nah they never pulled my pigtails
HER: i scare boys
ME: That's because you always dressed like a boy
ME: And they mistook you for one
HER: nah its because im smarter than them
ME: Hm
ME: Maybe that's why I'm so intimidated by you
ME: And scared to pull your pigtails
HER: oh yeah you're intimidated alright
HER: NOT
HER: the only reason im talking to you is
because youre not afraid of me
ME: Oh, but I am
HER: the ones that live in fear of me bore me
ME: I'm scared
HER: you suck at lying
ME: Shaking, really
HER: oh geez
HER: dont every go into acting
ME: Don't every go into spelling
NOTE: This is the EXACT text from the ACTUAL
conversation. No modifications were made at all
to the text. Only the names have been modified to
hide identities.
OK, so who was this girl?
She was an actress and model, and a high-achiever
as well. She was beautiful, intelligent, and SHARP
AS A TACK.
In other words, I wasn't dealing with an average
girl here. I was talking to a woman who was IN DEMAND,
AND SHE KNEW IT. (Most women know at some level that
they're in demand, by the way. This one just happened
to be particularly sassy.)
How would an average guy who was online chatting
with random people have handled this? Probably like
so:
HER: you remind me of the boy on the playground
who pulls the girls pigtails
AVERAGE GUY: Why's that?
HER: i dont like too many boys
AVERAGE GUY: Why not? What kind of guy do you
like?
HER: and especially mean ones
AVERAGE GUY: I'm not a mean guy
HER: boys never pulled my pigtails
HER: i scare boys
AVERAGE GUY: Wow, you must be beautiful
HER: nah its because im smarter than them
AVERAGE GUY: I love smart women. ...blah blah blah.
SEE THE DIFFERENCE?
Let's talk about a few of the things that
happened in the original conversation.
It started out with her telling me that I remind
her of the boy on the playground that pulls the
girls pigtails.
Now, what does THAT mean?
IT MEANS SHE'S GETTING A LITTLE ANNOYED...
BUT AT THE SAME TIME HAVING FUN.
It means that she's PLAYING with me.
Of course, in the conversation that took place
before this segment, I was teasing her, busting on
her, telling her that her modeling pictures were
ugly and dorky, and everything else.
When she told me that I reminded her of the boy
who pulls girls' pigtails, I said "YES!" to myself,
because I knew she was REALLY enjoying it.
My answer, "The one you always liked" took her
somewhat ball-busting comment and turned it around
on her. Then, when she tried to deny it by saying
"I don't like too many boys" I just pressed on with
"Yea, but you liked that one". Then she said "and
especially mean ones" and I said "And you LOVE me".
Bingo!
She was at a dead end here, and she knew it it.
I had her number, and she couldn't deny it. So she
took a slightly different direction with "I scare
boys".
Now, most guys would have been stumped with a
comment like this. Her comments weren't having any
effect on me, so she tried to puff her chest a bit
and say "I scare boys".
I came right back with "That's because you always
dressed like a boy... and they mistook you for one".
HA!
I love it when I crack myself up.
Of course, she kept trying to sound superior,
and said "Nah, it's because I'm smarter than them".
OK, now notice what I did after that comment...
I said "Hm... Maybe that's why I'm so intimidated
by you... and scared to pull your pigtails".
What am I doing here?
I'm being SO cocky and sarcastic that I'm actually
making fun of the fact that she's ANYTHING but
intimidating to me. The fact is that I've been
"verbally" pulling her pigtails the whole time, and
she knows it!
So she answers "Yea, you're intimidated alright...
NOT".
Now, I want to point out a KEY phrase that this
girl said to me. She said:
"...the only reason im talking to you is because
youre not afraid of me..."
Whoa.
Isn't THAT interesting?
What do you think that might mean?
Could it mean that she IMMEDIATELY dismisses men
who ARE intimidated by her?
Could it mean that this is one of the FIRST things
she wants to know when she starts talking to a man?
Could it mean that she has all kinds of TESTS that
she uses early on... tests that most men NEVER EVEN
REALIZE ARE TESTS... that she uses to determine
whether or not a guy is intimidated by her?
Could it mean that this is happening all the time
to guys all over the world, and they don't even know
it?
Could it mean that most guys will try to act nice
and accommodating... and kiss ass... and act like they
want a woman to approve of them... only to have it
backfire and drive the woman away?
Could it mean that she's showing me HER "hand" and
subtly telling me that I'm winning her over?
I realize that I'm taking this to an extreme here,
but guess what?
THE ANSWERS ARE:
YES, YES, YES, YES, YES, AND YES!
If I would have responded to her like a dumb-ass
Wussy (as in the fake example above) she would have
hit the road faster than Steve McQueen!
And at the end, I continued to play the sarcasm
and act afraid of her... until the very end, where
one of my personal FAVORITES happened: She misspelled
a word!
She said "don't every go into acting" (she meant
"don't EVER go into acting").
I shot back "Don't every go into spelling".
A beautiful moment... perfect.
So there you have it.
An example of me being Cocky & Funny with a real
girl, in a real conversation... unedited.
What's the lesson?
Well, it's a few things:
1) Don't act like a Wussy when you're around women
and ESPECIALLY when you're around extremely
attractive, high profile women. They hate it,
and they run. By the way, if you need a serious
"Wuss-Ectomy", and you want to evict your Inner
Wussy for good, then go and read THIS:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/17842/DeepInnerGame/
2) You must demonstrate a few key beliefs and
abilities to women when you first start talking to
them. One of those is that you don't fear women
(her), and another is that you can be comfortable
around them (her).
3) There is a MORE SUBTLE game being played out when
you first start interacting with a woman. She's going
to make literally DOZENS of decisions about you based
on NOTHING other than the way you COMMUNICATE and
appear to her.
If you screw it up, it's over.
Attraction isn't a CHOICE. And if she doesn't
feel it for you after she makes her initial
impression of you, then you're probably not going to
get another chance. And her ATTRACTION is going to
be based on all kinds of things that are NOT AT ALL
obvious to most men.
But there IS a way for you to learn all of these
different subtle components, and how to use your
communication (not money, food, and gifts) to quickly
trigger ATTRACTION in the women you meet.
What is that way?
It's called my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program.
Here, read an email that I got from a guy
in Australia who watched the DVD Video version:
"Dear David,
Wow. I have just finished watching your DVD series
and feel compelled to write to you.
Day 1 - Thank you for finally putting it all
together for me. I've had a few epiphanies in my
life and I can now chalk up one more. It is funny,
because my first revelation was when I read Richard
Dawkins 'Selfish Gene' many years ago in the bath.
I realised the water had in fact become freezing cold
around Chapter 5! When you started putting those
pieces together with why attraction isn't a choice,
a thick veil was lifted from my eyes. I CAN SEE. Thank
you
Day 2 - I'm no slouch interacting with women, I ran
a nightclub for 10 years, but I DIDN'T GET IT. Now,
thanks to your insightful hard work, I know how to
handle everything. I've just come back from kayaking
2,600 miles through the arctic Canadian wilderness
and when I met women in the settlements on the way I
always had a lot of fun. Why? Because they could see
I was in control of my own destiny, I could obviously
look after myself, I was different and they knew I was
only going to run to my agenda. They loved it. Your
series will "put me back in the kayak" in everyday
life, for the rest of my life.
Day 3 - David, this totally blew me away. The
possibilities are endless. Many friends have said
they couldn't understand why I wasn't a killer with
the chicks, because I had the 'right' attitude in
general. Well you have now made me a very dangerous
man. Thank you :)
Guys listen to me, you will be doing yourself more
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"How to be a Successful Alpha Male". Congratulations
David, you are a genius!
Regards
C.M.
Brit living in Melbourne Australia."
That is an unsolicited email... and it's
one of many, many emails just like it that I get all
the time. I think it says enough.
I've put YEARS into figuring all this stuff out,
and it took me about 6 months of presenting, digitally
recording and editing, designing, and creating to
put this package together.
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I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.
Your Friend,
David D.