Here lately we have all been seeing the DRAMA unfold on the Fu.
From who's a liar, to who's a cheater, to who threatens some one..etc.
Then we've seen the whole controversy over BBW's, Classy Women, and NSFW's.
Well I'm here to set the record straight, so this is to all the REAL woman out there.
Women do not have to be of a certain size, color, or age to be considered classy.
Let's define Classy shall we ?
classy - elegant and fashionable; "classy clothes"; "a classy dame"; "a posh restaurant"; "a swish pastry shop on the Rue du Bac"- Julia Child
posh, swish
colloquialism - a colloquial expression; characteristic of spoken or written communication that seeks to imitate informal speech
stylish, fashionable - having elegance or taste or refinement in manners or dress; "a little less posh but every bit as stylish as Lord Peter Wimsey"; "the stylish resort of Gstadd"
Ok now that we have this established, let's continue.
People think that in order to be classy you cant have a naughty side, they think in order to be classy you have to buy Ralph Loren or what ever.
You can go to Ross, Debs & Sunbelt and be just as classy.
You can be a size 0 and be classy, and you can be a size 20 and still be just as classy.
If people want to talk about BBW's showing too much, how about they write to Corporate America and tell them to quit making clothes that are half our sizes, and say that they are PLUS SIZED, when it looks like a 13 year old could barely wear it. The only clothes they make that fits BBW's are usually bland, dull and looks like your grandmother should be wearing it.
And even off the topic of clothes , let's talk about the infamous NSFW topic.
Just because you have NSFW's , does not make you any less " Classy " as the next woman.
It however does mean that it's OK for a woman to be proud of her self, her curves and be able to show her confidence.
Now I can understand if you have 95% nsfws to 5% sfws...Then we can talk about a totally different situation.
Now let's talk about classy for just a second shall we ?
Is it considered CLASSY for a woman who thinks she's too good looking to talk to some one below her?
Is it considered CLASSY for a woman who is drop dead gorgeous to sit there and belittle another for the way they look ?
Is it considered CLASSY for a skinny woman to flaunt herself out in the clubs ?
If you answered YES to any of these, then why is it considered CLASSY if a hot, skinny woman does it.
Yet it's vaine and inappropriate and disqusting for a BBW to do it ?
There is a HUGE difference between CLASSY & PRIDE.
Me personally, I take PRIDE in the way I look.
I take PRIDE in the image I portray of myself.
I take PRIDE in knowing that I'm not easy, or sleezy.
So why classify women at all ?
So instead of judging a woman based on SFW's, NSFW's or SIZE or COLOR alone.
Why not try getting to know the women you judge first.
We all come in different shapes, sizes, colors , and that my friends is what sets us apart.
I know as for myself, I want to be remembered for the fun loving, outgoing, down to earth , giving person that I am.
Not to be remembered because I do or don't have NSFWs.
Not to be remembered because I'm smaller or bigger than the next woman.
As the song says " I'M EVERY WOMAN ".
In closing...I don't think ANY woman should have to hide her pictures or dress a certain way because people are too judgemental.
I think instead of judging others, you should be praising them that they are not all the same.
