There are a lot of sentiments and emotions that fly around on this website, but probably the most prominent emotion on here is JEALOUSY!
No matter what reasons you have for it, jealousy is never a justified reaction or emotion. It is internal, and you should never take it out on someone externally. The foundation of jealousy is pure insecurity. Whatever is wrong with your confidence or ability to trust is your responsibility, no one else's. Everyone has been hurt or betrayed in their past. It doesn't mean that anyone who shares their gender, or race, or they have similar qualities, is going to do THE SAME WRONGS to you.
"If you don't learn from your past, you're doomed to repeat it". A wise quote, and should be heeded throughout all our lives. I had to learn the hard way just recently. No matter how much you try to ease their paranoia, or try to calm their emotions, if the person doesn't try to do it theirselves, they will never change it. They will always be jealous and insecure, and will try to blame or take it out on you. You can't change anyone but yourself, and you definitely can't make an adult do right. If someone shows blind nonsensical jealous rage, they will slowly suck your lifeforce, like an emotional vampire.
It's not healthy, it's not constructive, and it's not right. So someone flipping out because you get comments from other people on your profile, or someone bought you a gift, if your special someone flips out and just tries to tear you down for it, even though it's something out of your control, if you can, leave them be. They're only trying to transpose their insecurities upon you. And we all have enough insecurities of our own, we don't need to take on someone else's.
And bottom line, jealousy is a sin. It's a sin in any religion, it's a sin to nature, it's a sin to your soul. Your inability to give others reasonable doubt, or benefit of it, will eat at you till you are a hollow shell of your former self. No one will want to be around you, and honestly, no one should want to be around you. If all you do is accuse, blame, insult, criticize, overreact, and basically hurt others for how bad you feel about damn near everything, you will live a life full of regrets and shame. It's up to yourself to change that. It takes too much time, effort, and energy to be jealous 24/7. You will have emotional, mental, and eventually physical damage all because you can't process this simple and petty "emotion". And the sooner you see that, the brighter your life will be. And you can actually relax anytime you log on.
But hey, that's just my opinion........my word ain't law..........
