dont judge others by their actions....but yourself in your intentions...take each moment as it comes...treat others as you wish to be treated...and learn not to hold a grudge...life is too short..make time for the ones you love...follow your heart ..and sometimes your head...let people know how you feel...see the beauty in everything...and everyone...dont worry about what is yet to come..the future hasnt happened yet..just take each day as it comes...with a deap breath..and a big smile...and live each day as if it was your last...there are things in life we dont want to happen...but have to accept...