I did something tonight I wish all my friends would try when they have the chance. This is something I started when my daughters were in middle school and has always added to my enjoyment of youth sports, especially when I see my kids following my example.
As I was walking out of the gymnasium after my niece’s volleyball game with players and their families, I saw a girl from the opposing team being ushered out by her mother. I remembered seeing her make a few plays and so I made eye contact with her and said, “Hey, you did really good out there”.
This might sound corny to some people but you would not believe the tremendous emotional rush a simple gesture will create, especially when the athlete sees you are sporting the opposing team’s colors, or are a parent of one of their opponents. At this point the score is of much less importance. What is important to that kid is someone recognized their hard work. The same can be said of their parent if they hear the comment. You can almost see them burst with pride.
The next time you have the opportunity, try it yourself. I will guarantee you; the smiles you get back will stay with you the entire night.
