Through out my years, and now that i am older i can actually say that. I have seen many things, experianced many things, but still have not learned one thing. Maybe learned it is not the answer, but understood it is more the proper term.
The one thing that eludes me and many others is this .. Why is LOVE so hard, when we can love a child, a friend or a stranger. But when we love one other it becomes the most difficult thing in existance.
Our emotions get tied into knots, our words get dumped out like a dam ready to burst. We lose control. We lose sight of the first important thing that makes love work..
Friendship. We forget that through friendship, all words, and all thoughts can be assertained and contemplated in their normal state. We forget that through friendship we can forgive a mistaken word, or a misplaced emotion.
I guess in life it is not love that is hardest to understand, it is understanding that love should always fall back to friendship when emotions get tangled. That friendship should be the one constant to help love grow. That friendship is non judgmental and because of this, it is grander then love itself. And through friendship love can grow, and through friendship communication happens.
This is just a random thought by man with some time on his hands. A man who has seen and felt love, who has seen and lost love, and who has seen a child abused so severly that playing soccer with him may never be possible.
And it is because of his loss (my nephew dwight) that i relise that friendship and communication is the key to love and happiness.
(addition this has nothing to do with anyone lol, i sometimes just write and well if this one has to do with anyone its my nephew)
