OK the deal is with a friend that asked Me the same question.
If you enter into a relationship at a later age, say 40,and the other person has lived alone all her life.
10 years later, in every conversation in person or on the phone, this guy always hears her say, My bedroom, My House, My Car, I think this, I think that. There are No words what so ever of We or Us and whenever talking to family about him, even if he's in the same room, talks about him in third person.
Like a sister asking,Hey does He like this or does He like to do that. He has said something about all of it and all he hears is ... Oh it's normal..
Question for the mumm:
A. Is this normal and he should stay and stick it out
OR
B. Bail and find someone that's into him, We, Us