Why are us as men so stupid when we're younger?Is it lack of experience? Is it lack of Intelligence? Is it lack of Maturity? Personally I think it is all of the above. Most of us go through life one woman at a time finding little parts or little pieces of something we think we want. Whether it be the perfect body, the perfect mind, the perfect commitment, even the perfect SEX. This is the Mrs. Right Now. She is the one that you know is going to break your heart but you give it to her anyways. She is the one your mother hates and your dad shakes his head at. The one who takes a family reunion and makes sure she's the center of attention with a big emotional moment or something that embarrasses the hell out of you. She's the one who let's you know that you could never do better than her and that you would be miserable without them. Whereas after 2 weeks after breaking up, you're just fine and looking again.
The Mrs. Right on the othe hand is someone that you search for you entire life... The someone that fills the gaps that you have created in your own life and understands you for you, not what they want you to be. She is that woman that will still make your jaw drop in 20 years when she does something that is so cute you never thought it possible, and in your eyes is just as beautiful as the day you met. She is the one that has been patiently waiting for you even though you didn't know it. Hell she might not even know it. But after the 1st five minutes you two are together, you interact like you have know each other your entire lives. She is your cornerstone the same as you are hers.You build from one another instead of competing with one another. It's not about who can have the most friends, or who can do the best things. You are there for one another when then the times are hard, the times are great and when the love seams like it is slipping. There may be fights, there may be squabbles, but in the end you just realize that this person is everything that you've ever wanted and needed to fullfill your life.
When it comes to me, I thought I had found this a couple times in my life... I even got married at one point because I wanted to settle down so bad.... That was a mistake, becuase it ended up hurting everyone in the relationship. I was stupid and fell in love with the fact of being in love... dumb dumb dumb.... I was immature and stupid, but since I have grown to realise the truth. Overall i was impatient. Now.. 2 Years after my divorce... I'm ready to settle again.. I want that Mrs. Right for me.. not anyone else..... This time I'm not being so aggressive and I'm kinda letting life come to me, instead of me going for it.... I think I'm on the right track.. so tell me .....am I?
