Real or Not?
Here is my thoughts on virtual vs. real love for what it's worth. You may agree you may not, but who has yet really put into thought anything about this thing we call love on the internet? I havent seen anything out there involving chatters and their experiences on this subject, but I have seen a lot of people (yes, real people not your computer) hurt, happy, sad, bitten, smitten, etc. etc. ad nausim. My only proposition is that it is happening to thousands. We see boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands and wives all online playing the love me game. We know many have issues and use the net as an escape from the realities of life in so many different directions that we cant count the ways. So here we go, let's love "let me count the ways."
Loyalty is one of the biggest issues. Funny, in real life this one bites as bad or worse than online. Players, mind gamers, intimidators, all have one thing in common ... they are self-centered-egotistical-selfish-assholes (did I say THAT outloud?). Well, deal with the defined term as such if you are one of them. You're and asshole in real life and one online. Your loyalty lies within you and you play the same kind of games in real life just like you do online. So, my clear cut hammered up feeling is ... go fuck yourself, have a nice day!
Friends, Lovers, whatever ya wanna call it. You know the score here and that is between you and the other person. You figure out your own breaking or taking point, but at least act like an adult and set some kind of ground rules for both of you ... of course the self-centered asshole can pass this point and go right back to fucking themselves, have a nice day!
Real encounters from the cyber world is another issue. Some people look for mates or new mates through the net experience. We see a lot of places I wont mention because they fuck enough people out of money without me giving them credit for their sites, setups, costs and the likes. You better be very cautious in this real encounter thing, due to the fact that some are stalkers and this is not a good thing. You better know exactly what you are up against. As before, repeated again for the self-entered asshole ... pass this point and go directly to fucking yourself "long time."
Passing love around is easy if you have some kind of agreed responsibility. Oh? We should act adult? Oh, we should? Why not! Act like an adult and not a child and it can be an amazing thing for you both. If not, then again our self-centered friend ... you guessed it ... go fuck yourself, have a nice day!
I have seen a lot of this "love me" activity for a lot of years and nothing changes. It is about a need someone has and the desire to escape just for a little while from the bullshit we see every day. It's okay, you are a normal person if you are seeking some outlet, but becareful ... you need to set your own limits OR you may show up on one of the hit programs on TV under: "My Chat Lover Was An Alien." I forgot to tell the alien to go fuck themselves, but then again they may not have the proper humaniod tools to do such ... go ahead, use your antenna then or whatever ya got.
Last but not least, moving on passed someone is the hard part of this issue. Sometimes in real life you have to just mve on because someone is going to keep getting hurt. In the computer drama we see DAILY, some cant move on. This is hard, I understand, but sometimes you just have to let them go and move right along. The more to fight, the less attractive you become to others who see it. We need to open up a new burger stand and call it either Drama King or Drama Queen ... go through the express lane and get on with your life OR ... yeah, go fuck yourself, have a nice day!
I do hope at least one of your brain cells were activated during this wonderful theraputic cyber moment and for our favorite self-centered asshole ... I hope it is a dry fucking, have a nice day!
Oh, I forgot ... if you have added things to the list ... feel free to do your own thinking. I did mine already and know my limits in all of this bullshit session. However, for me, I spread love around to people as much as possible. You have a heart and so do I, so why not act like an adult instead of our asshole friend.
Regards,
Celtic
