If I had a fuckin' dime for everytime I've seen some asshole with a self-help book, come on and say "it's not your fault"...I'd have nough fuckin' money to hire a TEAM of asassins & scientists to find the most efficient way to exterminate these spineless fuckers. Truth is MOST ALL your problems are your fault. You do need help...but unfortunately (or fortunately) I cannot help you. Neither can any fuckin' book...or drink...or drug.
I flat out REFUSE to be of assisstance to denial of our real problems. I am not one to console. You want sympathy??? It's between shit & syphillus in the dictionary. I will NOT provide humanity it's crutch...I will kick it away. I will not lie & tell you everything will be ok, because untill the true source of your repetitive problems is identified...things WILL NOT BE OK!
ONLY YOU can seek advice from the strong instead of the sympathetic. ONLY YOU can take charge of your life. ONLY YOU can step up & take responsibilty. ONLY YOU can fix the source of your own problems when the problem is simply: YOU.