Reply to those other questions and thoughts that may have been brought on by my answres. — Tuesday, 03 October 2006
It's actually part of a resppnse to a person who wrote me. I figure since it's so long, it can be my blog for the day. Or my second one I guess. I figure other people were thinking some of the same things, so I figure I'lll put it out there so I don't have to write everyone back sending it to them. And it answeres those who don't even bother writing to me and asking. Why reward those people somehow? I don't know. I'm too nice, and feel too selfimportant or something.
Well, I haven't given all the women out there the answeres. Only the one's that actually read that post. Also, by this time, all those who were on my friend's list that were going to respond, probably have by now.
Say someone new comes along, and copies all the answeres and sends it back to me, I't gunna be kind of obvious if the wording is the same or similar. So they would have to take the time to rewrite it meaning about the same thing, only in their words. If you don't really feel that way, It's going to be hard to find a way to put it in your own words. Lets say they do this, it seems to imply 2 things. They are fairly inteligent, and they really want me. Both of those are positive things for me. Also, some of those things, it's kinda hard to make up, so they would have to change, or somehow go out of their way to conform with them. Such as Location, phone number, how big their brests are, even sense of humor somewhat. And clothing style. I guess that means going out and buying a bunch of goth stuff. And probably more that I haven't mentioned. If they are willing to go out and do all these things to be with me, I'm more than willing to give them a shot and see how much I really like them, and see how much I really like the "real them". Sometimes people ( on rare occasion ) actually do change who they really are. People evolve, and grow and stuff. So it's still a possibility that it could work out.
I do agree that sex without the emotions behind it isn't as nearly as satisfying. But it's still better than nothing. It's like fishing, even if it's bad, it's still pretty goood.
The names are names that I like, and actually happen to be names of people who I have liked in the past. I'm not sure how much of a coincadence that is. Another thing that is somewhat important is voice. Some voices are rather attractive to me, and other people's aren't. It also has to do with the way they talk, the tones they use when saying various things, It's really complicated. I'm not sure what questions would really be able to get that specific of information. Other than peopole's voice changes depending on their attitudes of the things they are taling about. So instead, I guess I try to get a feel of those attitudes.
The answered questions, become more of a list of requirements, or things I prefer. So people could just go through them and check the box of wich one's apply to them if they want. This may make dishonesty easier, but I guesse I'll find out when i meet them. ( That's assuming that there are even people in my area who replied to this, wich there wasn't ) Out of the three places I posted this- here, myspace, and lost cherry, there was only a few that responded, and none of them are in my area. So alass, there's really now qualified applicants and I have to go out and find me someone the old fashioned way. Actually leave my room and talk to people I may be interested in. Technology, and the wave of the future has failed me. So I guess it's either be lonly, or get over my shyness, and agraphobic tendencies. Both of wich are the hardest things I've ever had to do.... yah, I guess I've lived an easy life? or somethings are harder for some than others.
