Well I was looking at some other peoples blogs and this one was whining that his wife was moody and yada yada yada....and I was think that guy aint getting any for quite awhile.......you guys dont understand that women dont like the caveman act all the time...we want to be held and talked to like a human being...we want to cry...and just get everything out....we dont want some guy that means the world to us saying whats the hells wrong with you? We dont want you to fix our problems we just want you to listen....and after an extremely bad fight dont automatically think its going to sex....thats my husbands idea....you think we hold out because we can...some of us women do...but, for the most part women just dont want to have sex with you because your being a jerk....dont grab and snatch at us thinking thats going to take our mind off of whatever is bothering us..it wont it will only make things worse....my husband has a bad habit of when I just want to be alone making a complete idiot of himself thinking sex is the answer....IT WASNT EVEN THE QUESTION!!!!!