No one out here on any singles sites or on myspace are real. Everyone feels the need to lurk. No one wants to take the time to know anyone. Age makes no difference. That is a thing that is all in anyones mind. We all can have fun no matter what it is. Life is to short to just do nothing. It really takes no time at all to email someone and to let them know how you feel or just a mintue to say how are you. We have become a society of lurkers. No one wants to be real anymore. No one wants to be real we have become a society of lurkers.