My own advice to myself sometimes I also need reminding!
Current mood: cantankerous
We give away our incredible power and sometimes act in foolish ways. Like getting intimately involved with someone before we are ready, for fear of him leaving . Women give away this special gift in hopes that we will be loved. A lot of men don't care as much about love, they just want to get laid.
If we wait until we get to know someone before we get intimate with them, we stand a much better chance of weeding out the ones that are there for the wrong reasons. We can avoid getting involved with a man who has no intention of committing. This will result in less heartbreak and less time wasted in dead-end relationships. Get to know someone and know they are your soul mate before you get intimately and emotionally involved. If we all can learn to do this, we can save ourselves many tears and heartbreaks.
We also need to learn from our mistakes and from the mistakes of our sisters. A lot of us seem to keep getting the same lesson over and over again, and we will keep getting the same lesson until we learn it.
The bad boys come along and get us all excited and make our heart skip a beat. Usually from heart skipping to them skipping out on us. I say it is not worth it . It is time to change the way we do things.
Women are the ones who get hurt the most when relationships break up. My goal is to stop that from happening. If I can help even one sister get on the right track that leads to happiness and success in her life, with or without a man, this bulletin has been worth it.
I know I speak for a lot of women who are fed up with the current dating situation. We are tired of being lied to, being used for sex, and wasting time in dead-end relationships. We are tired of dating guys who are just in it for sex with no plans for long term commitment, even though they led us to believe otherwise. We are tired of being hit on every time we go out, we are tired of dating guys that expect to have sex right away without getting to know us.
Women , we should command respect and no longer tolerate being treated as sex objects by getting to really know someone before we get into a physical relationship, so that sex is again something special and sacred between a man and a woman, rather than just a physical act with no real meaning.
We need to make the decision that we are going to change our old patterns of the past and make way for some new and exciting opportunities for self fulfillment and self love.
When we truly love yourself, a whole new and exciting world will open up to you. We will not fall prey to the guys who will tell us what we desperately want to hear. We will be so busy leading a rich, fulfilling life, we will be happy to wait until our soul mate comes along. By taking control of our lives, not just our relationships. We become happier, with more peace of mind than we have ever had.
Sound good?
