When I was married to my last husband (prior his death in 2002), he and I would have sex as often as we could. However, judging from some people's responses to my recent blog & Mumm regarding being awakened for sex, there are some people who simply do not prefer to have their sleep interrupted. Obviously, I would think that these type of people would simply go against the grain of having sex in the morning as well.
To me, there was something nice to be said about having sex in the evening just before bedtime and, afterwards, laying my head upon his chest while snuggled up to him and his arms around me and we would talk until we could not hear the other speaking. In fact, I am not sure who fell asleep first. I may have because his voice was so soothing and mesmerizing to me.
We would talk about things that happen that day, what we were planning to do the next day, what are dreams are in tandem with one another and as individuals, and the like. I also asked him a lot about his past, his adventures on the Navy boat with his Dad who was also an accountant, his adventures to other lands, and the like. I truly believe that this was one of the things that added to make our communication so great in our marriage. At times, we would look at Playboy (and Playboy type) magazines together and he would butter me up by telling me why I was so much better than some of the plastic formations in the magazines.
At any rate, I would welcome his touches throughout the night (whether they were meant to be sexual advances or just an enduring moment and a sense of assurance of us next to each other), as he would welcome mine.
I don't think that I ever lacked of sleep; I just slept far better than I usually do in between. I think that some people think that they will lose out on their beauty rest whereas, I believe that their sleep could be enhanced if they establish a regular expectation of spontaneous moments of sex -- just as spontaneous laughter in one's life can provide for a healthier living style.
LOL...
Okay. I know. This posting got a little more drawn out than anticipated because of my sometimes ability to get a bit long-winded at times.
However, do you find that you are primarily having sex in the morning.... or, in the evenings...or, even sporadic in other parts of the day with your partner?
Just curious to know whether I am in the "norm" of the scheme of things....
What do you think????
