Ok I'm not to big on havin' sex or even makin' love. Even to the person that I'm with. So I asked two people, one a chick and another a guy. The chick said no it's not. And the guy said somewhat. Its important when both parties want it mutually. Not when one is demanding something. It IS a bigass difference between demanding and asking. So I guess my sex drive kinda went vamoosed when I hit 21, cuz meh. I jus don't like doin' it. And the bf kinda said but not really, that there's somethin' wrong with me. Because its instinct to the human bein' that all of us must love to have sex. That's what he told me. Well I'm sorry that I'm not like EVERYONE else. i mean yes, I'll make love to the person when I'm ready, but I hate it when he gets pissed off at me when I say no. Jus most of the time, I don't want to have it, why can't he jus accept that?
I need your input about this, guys!