I am not sure how things happen or why but I do know that things happen for a reason. My fiancee and I split up a few months ago and I was devestated. A good friend told me that sometimes things must go bad in order for something or someone that is much better to enter your life. I have to hang on to the hopes that it is true and when one door shuts another opens to better things. My only dilemma is how do you know when that door opens. What signifies the opening of that door?