Is it ok for couples to fight? Is it ok to get physical while fighting? How far should u let it go before you quite? If you fight and no one gets hurt is it ok? Or if someone does get hurt is that ok? Does it make a difference if the person who gets hurt male or female? Is it ok to hit? If you Where hit how would you react and what would happen? Would you continue with the relationship or end!Please I am just looking for others opinions on this situation and senario. So please read and leave a comment!
Here is a small senario:
A couple in a pretty new relationship have been haveing issues agreeing on very important things like how the disaplineing of the children should be. Well the kids where at home with the dad and while mother was at work. the kids started a fire in the house that could have turned extreme if the dad did not smell the smoke up stairs and if the fire had gotten out of the bathroom trash. the dad called the mother at work told her what happened. He told her he spanked the 3year and put her in the corner. She was ok with that. Then when she got home from work the kid was still in troble on the couch because she would not tell dad how it happen. So mother got the girl sat her up and made her stop crying and told her to show her how she did it. Once she found that out the little girl went to bed just like any other night.
Now the couple disagree on how that was handled. She thinks it was done fine. He think there should have been more diseplind involved on the mothers side. Well she was tired of discussing the issue but he was not. This turned in to her saying "I don't care". As he was asking what if questions she still said "i dont care". Well that made him mad because he thought that ment she doesnt care about the her kid, his kid or the house they live in. He ended up hitting her twice on the side of the head. At least hard enough to make a lump on her temple and burse the side of her head for a few days.(Now just F.Y.I. she is about three to four months pregnant and he has never done this before)
Please I need your opinion! Thank you!
