Ok I am posting this as someone recently tride to tell me that I have never experienced sub space because I do not suffer from extreme feelings of cold after the scene is over and because I tend to enjoy the sexual aspects of a scene to much.
My opinion, thats like telling everyone on earth they should enjoy one form of sex,,,, It comes in so many degrees and variations. Who can say any one things is right, correct or proper?
It's not so easy to answer this question. Try to ask it twenty submissives and most likely you will get twenty completely different answers. Everyone has her or his own sub-space. There are some similarities in this state's description, but still they are too much different. I would like to present to your attention a few answers from submissives I was speaking to. I hope these descriptions will through light on this phenomenon and will help those who dream of it.
"When I am in sub-space all my feelings are escalated. I am not quite "here", I am somewhere "there". When I am in sub-space, do not ask me to take rational decisions, I can't. I want to be where I am, I want to remain in this world created by my Master. The state of sub-space does not always come to me while sex play. Sometimes I deepen in it when hearing the voice of my Master or seeing his gesture…To see him when being in sub-space is like looking through drops of water - precise image in the center and blurred image around it.
"Being in sub-space I feel like electrified, like every inch of my body shines. I feel like falling from heaven. Everything around me is foggy. I do not quite understand who I am. I feel no fear, I am only excited by my falling. When in the end I "land", I go on knowing that this was not frightening. I know my Master is here, and that he will catch me. I feel like I am an entire whole with my Master."
"Sub-space for me is like another world. This is so deep commitment which makes me completely concentrated on my Master: on his desires, needs, caprices and on how I should fulfill them. This is being aware of your complete belonging to this person. You feel you exist only for him. There are no words to describe this state properly - just try describe red color to a blind. You can find some words, but one who has never experienced what you have will never understand what you are speaking about."
"For me this is a warm and soft feeling. I feel helpless and very woman-like. I feel a very strong desire. I can hardly open my eyes, my voice becomes very quiet, my gestures become weak. I love and remember every second of being in sub-space. I want to remember every wonderful moment of my being in sub-space, and recollect all these moments again and again."
I hope these descriptions will help you get to understand better what sub-space is. I thank everyone who agreed to answer my questions.
posted by: Bloody Mary
