Chip's blog: "Syco quiz"

Aries in Relationships The demanding and passionate Ram needs an equally self-possessed lover to stimulate them and set them on fire. If not, what's the point? Aries can be fiercely loyal, yet self-centered at the same time, so their partner needs to exhibit confidence and a sense of when to give them the space they need. The occasional bouts of temper exhibited by Aries are best dealt with if they are used as a prelude to a deeper understanding and the sizzle that comes with kissing and making up. Aries will stick with a relationship as long as it's hot (and fireworks are key to this Fire Sign), but if things start to cool down, it won't be long before they hit the road. The ideal Aries soul mate may be someone who is never, ever dull.

Aries and Romance Aries loves the hunt and will do whatever it takes to get the prize they want. The question in their mind will often be whether it's a prize worth keeping. Aries will take risks during the chase and would love the object of their affections to do the same. That give-and-take can keep things more than interesting and going for quite some time. There is no doubt that Aries is seductive and will prove hard to resist. Sparks will fly in this competitive pas de deux, and it's all the better where the Ram is concerned. A mental attraction for impassioned Aries is often the first step and the indicator as to whether things will progress. If things work their way down -- watch out! Once hooked, Aries loves strokes and tender caresses and a lover who will tell them that they are the best.

Aries The sign of the Ram is graced by the element of Fire, and if you were to use one word to describe Aries, it could easily be heat. People born under this sign have a passion and red-hot energy, which often proves irresistible. It's certainly never boring! Aries likes to initiate relationships, and the role of seducer comes to them easily. This sizzling romance dance will only work on those strong enough to stay in the game, because Aries wants a partner who can go toe-to-toe with them, whether it's over lunch or under the covers. Aries likes to get its way and often pits the wishes of self against what is best for the partnership, which can lead to conflict. These battles, though, are often foreplay, which can result in some sexy fireworks of their own. The Ram is possessed of a great physicality, a sense of adventure, is wildly flirtatious and loves to play.

***You Belong in 1975*** If you scored... 1950 - 1959: You're fun loving, romantic, and more than a little innocent. See you at the drive in! 1960 - 1969: You are a free spirit with a huge heart. Love, peace, and happiness rule - oh, and drugs too. 1970 - 1979: Bold and brash, you take life by the horns. Whether you're partying or protesting, you give it your all! 1980 - 1989: Wild, over the top, and just a little bit cheesy. You're colorful at night - and successful during the day. 1990 - 1999: With you anything goes! You're grunge one day, ghetto fabulous the next. It's all good! What Year Do You Belong In? http://www.blogthings.com/whatyeardoyoubelonginquiz/

Hello, I don't know why I'm writing this, but here it goes. I've been hurt a lot growing up and even afterwards. Well, I never knew my biological father, but maybe that's a good thing. he left when I was 5 years old.He died in prison in which he lived most of his life. He was sent there because he murdered two women. He murdered one woman and then got out on good behavier. Then, I guess he went right bach to prison by killing another. That doesn't seem that bad. The worst thing about it was that mom, as I was growing up, kept telling me that I was just like him. She kept drilling that into my head all the time. It seems that when you're a kid, things stick in your head after repitition. My mom saying that made me antisocial in school. For some reason I thought that if I had any friends, I would kill them. So at recess at school, I stayed by myself. I wouldn't talk to anyone at all, I was silent & alone. You see, my mom said that my dad was a warlock also. She said that he would put spells on people and they would die a week or two later. I really don't know if she was making that up or what, but she said that many times, That hurt! Another thing that hurt was, my mother tried to kill me 2 times. You're prob. think I'm making this up, but I assure you, it's all true. I've had a wierd and unusual life, for sure. One of the times mom through a butcherknife at me, as I ducked, it hit and stuck in the wall, wow, it would have hit me right in the head. The second time is, she was strangleing me. She nocked me down, on a church lawn, and started chocking me. Now that really took a toll on me, If it wasn't for my stepdad, at the time, I wouldn't be here. He ran over and trough her off me just before I lost cociousness. The part that got to me was the fact that how could she do that, at a church. I was devistated! Now remember these things happened when I was growing up, still a child. Another big hurt, was one of my stepdads, yes I had a few of them. A lot of times I couldn't change for PE at school, cause I would be battered and bruised, and maybe bloody under my cloths. I remember one time, he knocked me through the wall, from my bedroom, to my sisters bedroom. You see, I've been afraid of things early in life, and I've wrote that sentence for a reason. You'll see what I mean at the end of this blog OK. Oh yes, he used to beat on us all the time, but, believe it or not, that wasn't the worst part. Oh yes, it gets worse, in fact, the worst part of my life is comming up. Sorry, right now I'm getting a little teary eyed, I'll be back in a moment.... OK I'm back now! This next part is really hard for me, so bare with me. The biggest hurt of all, is with this same stepdad that beat us bloody. He started doing sexual things to me and my sister, I'm not going to explain in detail, cause I'll grt booted off grab I think. One day when mom went to the laundry mat, he held a gun to me and my sister. I was 11 & my sister was 9 years old. Anyway, he held a pistol close to us and said, "if you don't do what I say, I will kill you. He made my sister and I do sexual acts at gunpoint, when mom wasn't there. After he was satisfied with us he said for us never to tell mom or he would use the pistol and shoot us dead. This is the point that I found God, or I should say God found me. God spoke to me that night, just as if I was talking to a person in front of me. He said ,"I am real, and I love you, have faith in me and things will be alright, everything will be better". Wow, that hit me, it seems that all through that night, I had visions. God was showing me all kinds of stuff at 11 years old. You see, I was going to take my own life because I couldn't deal with what happened, then God showed up and things changed. Well, as the story goes, after this stepdad went to work the following day, I went right up to mom and told her what happened. Well the worse part is, she didn't believe me, not even after my sister said the same thing. OMG, I thought for sure, my sister and I was going to be dead. We lived in fear like that for about a year, before mom finally believed us and got rid of him. It seems that after that, I started fearing nothing. I believe that I had so much fear early in life that I kinda became numb to fear. Of coarse there was a lot more that went on , growing up, but I pudy much think I hit all the important ones. Even though I started talking to God early in life, I still become an alcoholic, in my teens, hmmmmmm, I wonder why..... I'm proud to say though, I don't drink now, for about 12 years, well except for a few times. I'm proud to say also, that I still talk to God and he does work miricles for sure, I know that first hand. Well, I really don't know why I wrote this, but, for some reason I'm glad. I'm hoping that maybe this will help some people. Believe it or not, I've never had counsiling on any of this stuff, I believe God counciled me. Since this growing up stage, or whatever you would call it, I've feared nothing at all. I've had guns pulled on me and the last time I just took it away from the guy. I guess, having no fear, could be a bad thing. Oh no, I just thought of somthing, now people will no why I'm nuts, hehehehe! Sorry about the spelling, I didn't do good in school, and I didn't find a spell check on here... hehehe, byeeeee 4 now my friends.