Thanks everyone for all the great emails and responses to the mumm. We did come back from a great vacation. Like you say in the vows for better or worse. I need to be at my husband side no matter what happens with this next court case. We will be talking to JAG here to find out what would happen if he was claimed the father and how the courts view his 1st court order vs what will happen with this second one and of course this family all off his pay. I do know is ex wife would give us even more hell if her child support goes down because of this mess. My husband is upset that I could be right on, that he may have to get out of the military after 10 years of service and hopefully find another job. Deal with the child support and stuff that way. Going to be sad for the first 2 children since the mother can't even get medical insurance on them. That is the only reason why my husband is still in the military. I just hope and pray that due to all the medical stuff the military does cover. That he doesn't get "booted" out if that was a result of this mess.
So we will be MIA now with this move going on. I will stay strong and my head held high for my family. I will check in as much as I can. I don't know if the library overseas at our next duty station even allows me to check fubar. So we shall see. Plus we are already stranded for abit in Frankfurt, Germany since my husband orders changed 4x. I laughed and said we could end up in Italy again with the way the orders were going. LOL...
Have a MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR!