Well here's the lastest on my dad.. which is not good .He fell two Fridays ago and we took him to our local hospital they took X-rays and said he was fine just some bruising ... said to follow up at his next VA appt.. well we did. This Friday Sept the 7 we took him to the Va and they examined him he had been retaining fluid and a lot of it I mean he looked like a giraffe with elephants feet ..well they admitted him for premature congested heart failure..(fluid on the heart and lungs) While he was there they decided to run a CT scan on this abdomen and chest well here comes the fall part they called me yesterday and said he had 4 broke ribs and a fractured pelvis..OMG I'm pissed..and they have told us he is now a non weight bearing patient which means wheel chair patient for a while the can't do surgery because the bones are still in place.. the ribs well the just have to heal on there own ..okay then today the cancer docs called me and they say mind you dad has Stage 4 lung cancer that had spread to his other lung, heart and liver they cancer has spread freakin again now to his bones ,adrenal glands and kidneys OMG it just keeps getting better... so they have finally decided to stop all chemo pills and other crap call in hospice and let him go in peace ...We have a Social Worker coming to see us tomorrow and some other ppl coming to talk to us so we can have some idea as to what the hell we are to be doing over the next few wks... the docs gave his time roughly a fews to maybe a few mths so please keeps us in thought and prayers if you do that ... and I'll update more later luv all ya'll bunches MUAH!!!!!!!!!!!