Being a mom...means giving up partying. Being a mom means giving up your body during the pregnancy. Boobs get bigger..belly gets bigger...and even ur ass. Before I got pregnant I was 5'9 and weighed 140 pounds. Of course, I had toximia. Which is high blood pressure, extreme swelling and weight gain, seizures. I went from 140 pounds to 230. After I had Ian....I went down to 200. Since then I have managed to go down to 180-190. Im not the skinny girl that I used to be, no matter what I do.