What do I seek in that someone special? The most important thing to me is "honesty"..there cannot be a relationship of any kind without it..If you lie to me from the beginning that is like a house build on a sand foundation, it will not stand..."Patience" is very important as well..After losing my boyfriend so suddenly my heart still aches- so many people want to rush into things..what is the rush? The best things in life are those things we wait for...I could never understand why people have to jump into bed after "hello"...A good sense of humor is important to me, you have to be able to make me laugh...There are times to be serious, you can't be serious all the time..I am so giggly...I am youthful and enjoy the little things in life like building sandcastles, chasing butterflies- I don't want someone to tell me "you are too old for that"....I'm NEVER too old....my soul is free and as long as there is breath in me I will be the lil girl I was meant to be..Someone who can openly communicate with me- feel free to tell me exactly what is on their mind without worry....that is important..I do not judge and I do understand that others in your past may have..but I AM NOT YOUR EX....I am tired of men comparing me to their ex's...(it's annoying)...So, basically, I am just looking for someone who accepts me as I am-- can make me laugh--- who is honest and faithful--- could that someone be you?