Ok so why does it make a person bad of they are honest with others more when they talk like you want only friendship from them and they think they can push more on you and with you're honesty they freak out. I think it's wrong that it seems in order to get the point across to them you become someone you don't like to be. Yes this goes both ways but still you shouldn't have to repeat yourself over and.over that you have someone you like of want to be with and yet you're the bad person for saying the truth.