okay..listen it's give and take..both of you have to respect each other no matter what situation ur in... and holy fuck people let the small shit go... nobody man or woman should stay in a shitty situation.... men and women should take care of each other sexually ...and i don't care what anyone says.. it's important... The Workforce does pick and choose who they hire based on sexuality, how attractive ur and your qualifications and it's the facts. Take a look around.