How many of you believe in online love? Do you think if could be love? Lust? or just a fantasy? Or possibly a combination of all three?
I believe in all three, but I am so afraid of the first one...Love. To love someone is not hard for me to do. I love many people in so many different ways, but to fall or be "in" love with someone is very hard for me. I guess the reason for this is because I have been hurt by EVERYONE that I have fallen in love with.
So to give my all my everything to someone again just to have myself be hurt again is hard to do. The trust issue is just not there.
Now lust is a whole different story. I have lusted after a few people. It was very nice too. They were so nice and it was so much fun, but then it got out of hand. They knew where my feelings stood but they wanted more. Yes they spoke the three little words to me...I love you. I couldn't handle it at that moment. So the fun had to stop.
Now fantasy...I love fantasy because you can do anything with this. To me fantasy is nothing more than two people who are "attracted" (yes both parties have to have the same feelings) to one another and have one amazing mind fuck. Yes cyber sex. It helps cleanse the mind among other things...LOL!
So tell me your thoughts on the issue at hand.
