One Slaves Story:
Well first let me introduce myself. My name is Pam, I am 49 years old (at the writing of this). I have been in this life style since I was 17(32Yrs now). Now the story begins.
It was a nice spring day in up state New York. So being 17 I wanted to get out go for a walk, so I headed to the park with a good book, and some lunch. I found a good spot and settled down with my book. I must of been there for hours just reading and enjoying the nice day, when a shadow creep across my book, making it hard to see what I was reading. So I looked up for the source and was staring into the most perfect eyes I'd ever seen. I smiled and said would you mind moving out of the sun for me your blocking it. He looked at me and smiled back asking me what I was reading? I told him Stephen Kings new book. Then he asked me if I did a lot of reading and I told him yes I do every chance I get. We then started talking about different books and the ones we liked. When he realized that I never included romance novels as books i read, he commented on it saying no silly romance novels for you then little one and I answered no way they are just that silly. He then sat down on my blanket next to me and we went on talking about authors. After about an hour he said he had to go home, but that it had been nice talking to some one who really enjoyed reading as much as he did. He then asked me if I would meet him here again tomorrow around the same time. I told him sure I've nothing really planned any ways. As he got up to leave I said by the way my name's Pam and yours is? He just smiled at me and said to you little one my name is Sir (now mind you I've never herd of the life style at this time).So I just stared at him stunned and said your name is Sir? He just smiled and said that’s right little one (he kept calling me little one). I just shrugged my shoulders and said ok Sir I'll see you here tomorrow then. He then said be here at 11 am sharp and don't be late I hate to be kept waiting little one. He then told me to wear something nice cause he was taking me to lunch. I told him I would do that and gathered my stuff and got up and left. Well back when I was 17 I didn’t take orders from grown ups very well. And who did this guy think he was any ways giving me orders?
Well the next morning I got up did my chores, showered, and dressed down not up. Well needless to say I was running late and never got out of the house till 11:30 and didn't get to the park until 11:45. I found Sir sitting on a bench tapping his foot. I walked over looking I smile at him, but knew by the look on his face he wasn't happy with me. I told him look I'm not really good at taking orders from people least of all from people I don’t even know. And asked him who he thought he was a mere stranger giving me orders and not even telling me your name. What kind of name is Sir any ways I asked? He then calmly explained that Sir was his name to me always, and that’s just how it was. He then got up and walked over and took me by the arm and said are you ready for lunch now little one? I said I was and off we went to lunch.
When we got to the restaurant and got seated he did all the ordering even for me. That really ticked me off I mean who did he think he was to assume he knew what I liked and didn't like? Over lunch we talked a lot of getting to know each other better in some ways. I had the feeling there was a dark side to Sir and he wasn't ready to tell me about it yet and I was right. That lunch started a very close friendship between the 2 of us. I never did find out his real name, but I knew he was married but separated. I also herd words like life style, BDSM, spankings and punishments, wrist and ankle cuffs. Words I knew nothing about, but I could tell that they were all part of his life some how. He also referred to me as a sub a lot( what ever that meant ). He was 24 and seamed very worldly to me.
Well over the next 5 years we grew closer as friends. Sir also in that time taught me I could do anything if I wanted it bad enough. The key is to wanting it bad enough. I learned all about this life style of his he lived. I was most intrigued by it to say the least. Sir was very patient with me and all my questions got answered by him. After 5 yrs of us being such close friends one day Sir said he would like to take this friendship to a new level. In my mind i figured it was having sex he was taking about, but to my surprise he was talking about me becoming his sub. Well at 22 I wasn't sure if that's what I wanted to spend the rest of my life doing. But I figured I'd give it a try with all my heart. I wanted so much to please Sir. Sir told me I was a natural submissive cause I had it in my heart to please others. So I started my training to become a sub, and one of the first things I learned was about punishment when I didn't do as I was told.
Over the next 2 years I learned how to kneel for different things, how to wear wrist and ankle cuffs all the time. I also learned that respect is a two way street. I also learned the hard way never to be late again. If he said 11am it was 10:55 for sure. The punishment for being late for anything was very harsh. I would have to serve him his meal and wait standing near by until he got done. Then I would fix myself a plate and stand at the counter bent over eating and having my ass paddled hard at the same time. And the paddling didn't stop until my plate was empty. What a way to learn to all ways be on time but it worked I was never late again. I also learned about mouthing off to Sir, not showing him respect the hard way. When ever I was mouthy he would have me get 3 clothes pins and bring them to him. Then he would tell me to open my mouth and stick out my tongue and he would place the clothes pins on my tongue. Well then to top it all off he would then tell me to go and get ready he was taking me out to dinner. I asked if I could remove the clothes pins now and he would smile and say no you are to wear them to the restaurant and take them off to eat and put them back on. Well I also learned about humiliation really fast along with not being so mouthy after doing this a few times. To a person not in the life style this all may seem cruel but believe me its not it's just away of life for us.
Over the course of 32 years I also learned to be a Dome. Cause Master told me that you have to learn to be both a slave and Dom/me in order to either serve well or Dom well. Like he said how can you be a good Dom/me if you don't know what it feels like being a slave.
