Superman's blog: "The S may be for stupid rather than for superman"

Ok, anyone and everyone knows anytime you mix alchohol, a hot tub, and 2 sexy ass people. Some things are going to happen. It doesn't help both people do not mind being nude in public areas. Well tequila is the drink of choice, clothes are on the fence, and the kids are to bed. Or so we thought. Don't you love the sixth sense of the oldest child? It seems that everytime mommy is in the middle of SOMETHING, the oldest will always make their way out of the room to beg for something that is pointless. The first time was ok she wanted to see her mom before she went to bed. When you hit on a mom, you expect it. An hour or two passes, things are beyond heated in the jacuzzi. The oldest peaks around the corner. Luckily, we were not out of the water. So , to the kid everything seemed normal. Wanting to be in the middle of things, she comes outside and ask for some cheetos. We send the girl back inside, and her and I continue to entertain each other. 30 minutes later she(the kid) comes out to say "Mommy, I love you!". The mother and I just look at each other. Mom responds, "I love you too honey, now get your ass to bed!" Her daughter does just that, or so we thought. We manuever our bodies that we can see into the house but they cant see us. We see the youngster stomp up the stairs. At this point we basically want to start over again. 20 minutes in we both hear "MOM ARE YOU COMING TO BED!?" THIS is where I just lost it, but I wasn't the only one. How would feel if your mother storm your bedroom butt-naked and pissed. Needless to say, That is how the night ended.

In the past 6 months i have been dating someone who i thought was right. We would go out weekly or bi-weekly depending on how the time permits. I work two jobs. She works and goes to school. The look in her eyes when i held her. Her head resting on my chest as we stand in the park looking at the sky. It all seemed right. We spoke in honest words or so I thought. We both agreed to keep the relationship open in the beginning. I knew she was eeing someone at work and she knew i was doing the same. At least until she told me that she and he were no more. The time we spent grew and so did the happiness. That is until the stress loads of work and school got to us both. With our time apart it gave me room to reflect on me. I have father-abandonment issues. This can be triggered by simply watching 30 minute to 2 hour shows or movies on the subjects of father figures. We all go through this right? I went to someone i thought i could trust. AT THE WRONG TIME! With her stress and mine we basically fought about nothing. she wouldnt let me speak and out of nowhere we were accusing each other of lying. well i know i care about her enough to make time to see her face , even if it is for 5 minutes. Yesterday i found myself waking in the middle of the night thinking about her. I come to find out the guy she said she had stopped seeing. she had been seeing the whole time. I wonder why I have trust issues. I deserve the jackass across my forehead for this one.