After a long awaited time, my kids are finally home with me here in Nebraska. A couple of weeks ago, their father and my ex husband thought that he could have the power to do what he wanted by trying to get temporary custody of these kids. Well, after a long and hard discussion over this debate with a lot of tears and such, I found that I had the power to go to the right officials to get what I wanted back. My ex is also in the military and he was suppose to enjoy this time with his kids as much as he could but when he had his greedy fiance always telling him what to do and with the kids being there in the palm of her hands, he decided that I could not handle my own kids and wanted for me to change before he decided to give them back.
Well, I was not going to take that from him, more less his fiance who always stuck her nose into the business of our kids and what she thought was right to do in this situation. So I had to do what I had to in order to get things done and now, my ex will just have to wait till Christmas time or maybe sooner; who knows...till he gets to spend time with these wonderful kids. Unfortunately, I have lost a lot of trust in him because he does not listen to his heart but to others who have shown me no respect in return. During this time, I was known as the "other mother" and I was not going to put up with that. I am the true mother to my Jacob and Samantha and no one was going to take that away from me. NO ONE!!!!! Anyhow, all is good now and all things are back to order. I plan to go to school in March and I am looking at an interesting career in Inbound Sales work on the side. On top of raising these two children of mine. But until then, it is good to see the smiling faces of my kids and the laughter that they filled in our hearts with joy.
