nothing really, just some random thoughts
I realized something about myself. I really like to flirt sometimes brillantly, sometimes i can be naughty sometimes I fall flat on my face. sometimes all three at the same time. there are times when i flirt I want to take it back. I get scared afraid I'm doing something wrong. especially when I flirt and it goes terribly wrong. I changed alot of stuff in my life. but still somethings remain the same. I got to figure out what I need to do to not repeat the bad things. Somehow the bad things I repeat constantly that frightens me. Am i really that blind sighted or that gullible. I want what every woman wants but I also want fun but on my terms and upfront. one thing i hate is not being honest about what is expected. dam i hated being told one thing and getting the same crap.
Now someone asked me what makes a man sexy here's my list
when men are honest with themselves
when a man interacts with a child and actually acts like a child in play or shows a gentleness to their child no matter how old they are
a man not afraid to look foolish in front of his friends to impress the woman he loves
a man who doesn't hide a girl even if he knows his friends would not aprove of this girl because of her looks or weight.
a man who would stand up for this girl when his friends tell him he could do better.
a man who calls just to hear her voice, or comes over unexpectedly just to drop off a token or flowers just to see her smile. even though she looks like a mess and thinks she's beautiful.
a man who knows women are truly the stronger sex
a man who can laugh at a joke even if it is a joke at they're genders expense
a man who can make a date folding clothes and enjoy it because its time he spent with the girl he cares about.
a man who really loves what he does for a living, and still finds time to sneak a little time to make love to his girl.
a man who thinks a women is sexy when she sleeps in his old tshirt
these are a few of the things that make a man sexy
it's not his eyes body or the size of his penis or wallet, car he drives time changes those things
but time should not change the quality of a man.
one thing i get from married men the sex changes over time or it ends they look elsewhere but if they show the same attention they gave when dating maybe the sex they got when it was fresh wouldn't end if they remember how they got her in the first place what made her say "I do" in the first place.
I know when my ex husband began to withdraw I did too I didn't find him sexy anymore. please don't withdraw even when she does keep trying to court her all over again make a fool of yourself make her fall in love all over again. even if you fail at the begining keep trying. If she was worth it in the begining and she gave you your children and you love them and want them to be in your life. treat your wife as if she was your girlfriend and lover. look at her every morning like it was the first time you knew she was the one call her in the middle of the day ask her out on a date at the end of the night before you walk in give her the deepest most passionate kiss like the one's you had before the kids and the house and the bills once you go in and go to bed as if nothing was different maybe she will become the lover you had remembered she was or maybe she'd become the lover you always wanted. i know that's what I wanted.
